Evidence is sometimes quite strong that I’m wrong about all of this, but I am and shall remain a sucker for love.
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November 19th, 2014
I like that people know they can depend on me. Especially when those people aren’t taking advantage of that fact.
November 6th, 2014
This isn’t fiction: The protagonist’s actions are not assumed to be correct or commendable. I am not advocating my behavior, simply documenting it.
November 3rd, 2014
When I get an eye exam, I want to tell the optometrist that I can see better, even when I can’t based on the inflection I hear in their voice. I can tell when they want it to be better, so I don’t want to disappoint them.
I do the same thing with therapists sometimes. A good one can see me doing it and call me out. A bad one will just act like a cheerleader and tell me how well I’m doing.
October 25th, 2014
Rolling your eyes is probably the correct reaction to this.
October 22nd, 2014
I began this comic six months ago and a major theme throughout has been how much I have changed, how much I continue to, and how much further I have to go. As mercurial as I suppose I can be, there are pieces of my self that are constant and immutable.
October 20th, 2014
I am doing a better job of surrounding myself with smart people. Case in point:
October 19th, 2014
This is one of those cases where I am capturing something real that isn’t actually true.
Keep the Mountain to your Right
Keep the Mountain to Your Right
Four days, three nights, roughly 41 miles, all of it with some sixty pounds of gear and food strapped to my back. While on the trail, I made a comic when I woke up, one when I stopped for lunch, one next to the fire in camp in the evening, and one during my normal time: at night, right before I fell asleep.
Day One began at the Timberline Lodge with 40 mile an hour winds making me seriously question some of my assumptions about the trail. I said my electronic goodbyes, pulled on the coat I thought was just for emergencies, and hiked the ten miles to Ramona Falls.
Day Two was probably the most solitary day, and certainly the one with the most forest to walk through. I climbed Bald Mountain, I walked about 10 miles, and I camped out at Coe Creek.
On Day Three I faced the difficult and dangerous crossing at Eliot Creek. Along the way I met Richard, a 20 year old who was also solo hiking the trail. We’d somehow started at the same time but not bumped into each other. He became my traveling companion until the last stretch of the hike on Sunday.
We talked about life, hiking, relationships, our childhoods, and a hundred other secret things that we only shared with the rocks and trees.
The final day was across long, open stretches with nothing but harsh sunlight to keep us company. I was tired, but the end was so close.
I’m writing this weeks later and could tell you a thousand details that I missed in these comics and in the stories I’ve told friends and loved ones, but the main thing I want you to know is:
I miss the mountain.
September 10th, 2014
I love easily and intensely. Once you’re in my heart (as a friend, as a lover, as a member of my blood or various adopted families), you tend to stay there.
Tell the people you love how you feel. Show each other kindness. Only good can come of it.