Being present is the hardest thing I struggle with. This relationship included.
Tag Archives: codependence
November 23rd, 2014
There are multiple voices in my head that tell me I’m not worthy of reciprocal relationships. They’re pretty loud.
October 28th, 2014
Physician, heal thyself.
October 19th, 2014
This is one of those cases where I am capturing something real that isn’t actually true.
July 21st, 2014
Today was a day of confronting things that at other points in my life I would not have. I would have shied away. I would have acquiesced.
I’m not saying I did everything perfectly, but I didn’t do a bit of it without putting myself and my own happiness first and foremost. I didn’t spend a moment sacrificing my needs for the needs of others.
And if you think that sounds selfish, I would suggest you go read about codependency.
I am responsible for my happiness and right now, I’m being very responsible.
July 20th, 2014
Each day, a tiny step forward.
July 16th, 2014
Sometimes you’re just trying to keep a little distance and sometimes you need to put up some boundaries that can be seen from space.
July 15th, 2014
Apparently today’s comic continues the theme from yesterday’s. Obviously this is something I’m thinking a lot about.
July 14th, 2014
Andrea is not wrong.
June 14th, 2014
It can be frustrating to see so much growth in one area and so little in another. But I suppose that I just need to remember that progress is not linear.